How U Feel
As long as we’re caught up in always looking for certainty and happiness, rather than honoring the taste and smell and quality of exactly what is happening, as long as we’re always running away from discomfort, we’re going to be caught in a cycle of unhappiness and disappointment, and we will feel weaker and weaker. This way of seeing helps us to develop inner strength. And what’s especially encouraging is the view that inner strength is available to us at just the moment when we think we’ve hit the bottom, when things are at their worst.
Instead of asking ourselves, “How can I find security and happiness?” we could ask ourselves, “Can I touch the center of my pain? Can I sit with suffering, both yours and mine, without trying to make it go away? Can I stay present to the ache of loss or disgrace-disappointment in all its many forms-and let it open me?”
Yu Zhang (5’11) @ Paras Model Management Shanghai
“Punctuality isn’t about respecting time. It’s about respecting people.”
Cool, Aloof, Unattached
People born with Venus in Aquarius possess a free spirited nature. They are experimental and open minded. They love new ideas, new experiences, new people. They love brainstorming, inventing things, and often easily get great ideas. They often have a cool, relaxed but somewhat unaccessible personality. They often seem distant, unapproachable, in their own world. But really they love talking to people and sharing their vision. They often have a very unique and sometimes weird sense of style. They can be very ahead of the curve in their individual style and creative expression.
Women born with Venus in Aquarius tend to be very relaxed and cool. They have a sense of quiet confidence and independence. When you get to know them though, they can be quite manic and weird. They are full of ideas, dreams, stories. They have a unique perspective and love talking.
Women with Venus in Aquarius will either have a very cool and unique even avant garde sense of style, a really boring complete lack of style, or a really horrible almost hard to watch sense of style. Always one of the three. They are visionaries and if they are more creative types, their style will be quite cool and inventive. If they are more scientific, practical, or just less creative it will be one of the other two.
They usually look great in whites or electric colors and clean modern cuts. When their eyes are blue they are always stunningly electric! They can look great in “future” inspired looks. Nothing to wholesome, homey, or traditionally “sexy”. They look best when they are doing something cutting edge with their fashion. Unless something else really different is going on in their chart, they should never be afraid to try the neon lipstick or the asymmetrical haircut.
They look and feel best when they are active and light on their feet. It’s important that Venus in Aquarius have some type of workout routine both to focus their active mind and to manage their weight. They don’t always feel best when they are “weighted down” emotionally or physically. It can make them feel crazy and out of whack. They want to feel free and often feel best when they focus on ways to easily keep that feeling.
Women with Venus in Aquarius tend to love new technologies, new ideas, new music and art. They may go to really off-the-wall experimental or modern-classical music festivals. Or go to hear some buzzworthy scientist speak about the latest theories in astro-physics. Or they may go to some really weird Corn carnival or Ant parade. They can have really strange interests. They may want to do the types of things that others find super boring or too weird.
They love participating in charities and doing things to make the world a better place. They are not as interested in interpersonal relationships as they are in improving the world on a grand scale. They often befriend people who are actively committed to a charitable work or helping to improve the world in some way. These natives will always try to do something to help them with their cause. They are very progressive and are always looking to the future. They are interested in any idea or concept that will evolve the population to a more peaceful existence.
Women with Venus in Aquarius tend to have lots of friends, but they are never really that close to any of them. They are too busy doing their own thing. They are not always the types to get involved in drama and they often are not really that interested in the personal affairs of their friends. They tend to be a little arrogant and preachy with their friends. They usually don’t make the best listeners and even less likely to be the best consolers. They are not very sensitive to the emotional needs of others. They can be huge know-it-alls and often assume their own experience to be much wider in range than the petty down to earth life of their friends. They don’t care that much about maintaining relationships with people. They can take it or leave it. They are too independent and excited about their own visions and ideas to be weighted down by anyone else’s emotional drama.
Their best friendships are with collaborators and people willing to experiment and try new things with them. When the friendship is over they let it go and move on to their next experience without looking back.
Relationships with women with Venus in Aquarius are often very similar to their friendships. They don’t want or need a lot of drama or emotional roller-coasters. They want to be with someone who inspires their mind. They love bold, inventive thinkers. They love to talk with their lover and share ideas. They prefer relationships with people that give them lots of freedom and space to think and try new things. They don’t get very attached in their relationships. And when they are over they can usually let go quite easily and move on. They don’t do well with very possessive partners unless something else is happening in their chart. They can be the types to be in “open” relationships. They don’t always have traditional views of commitment.
They are definitely not the most traditionally sexual of the Venus signs. They are often more excited by the idea of sex than the sex itself. They often think they are a lot more sexual than they actually are. They may imagine themselves to be experienced masters of sexual intercourse but are sometimes confused about the workings of sex and think something is happening that actually isn’t. They can be the types to think they have invented a new and crazy trick in bed but it is actually just common foreplay to others. They may have really weird kinks when it comes to sex. They can really be into phone sex, internet porn, or inanimate objects or toys. They may have an extreme detachment from the sex act itself and can be very promiscuous showing little to no standards in choosing sex partners. They could also really be into group sex and orgies. They may not always feel comfortable discussing sex or they may talk about it entirely too much. They may feel way out of their element with that subject.
Venus in Aquarius women in relationships are usually very open minded and carefree but they can be the types, though, to have unexpected, inappropriate, and weird emotional outbreaks. They may have manic moments of emotional weirdness. They may not understand why they are crying or what they are reacting to. They often keep their emotions in such a locked box that it sometimes gets full and explodes when they don’t expect it. They can be very very very out of touch with their emotions and often don’t have the capacity to control them when they do erupt. Their lover may not understand what has suddenly made them so crazy and sad. It could be anything. Something from years ago or that morning. Women with Venus in Aquarius often have very strange and unpredictable emotional reactions.
In general though women born with Venus in Aquarius are very cool and calm. Unless something else is happening in their chart (like capricorn which is very common) they will have a very light care-free presence and they will hate petty drama. They can be very aloof and intimidating but they are very open minded. They love making friends, trying new things, and sharing ideas.
May prefer a woman with the above qualities. May prefer unorthodox partners or unconventional friends and relationshipsMay have a lot of weird relationships that appear out of the blue and go to really unexpected places. May prefer really cool but nerdy girls like someone who is really sexy but knows a lot about science. May not like to commit, may prefer open or non-traditional relationships. May love to invent things. May be really into science and technology. May relax by doing something weird or unorthodox, may have really weird interests and hobbies.
Men, if Venus is dominant in your chart or conjunct your AC, Sun, or Moon. Please feel free to interpret the “Women” interpretation for yourself, just substitute the pronouns where necessary.
— Awakened Vibrations (via awakenedvibrations)